Decluttering the easy way

3 October, 2017 25 comments

How I turned de-cluttering from a nightmare into a quick task

Every so often I get the need to de-clutter. Now I have to be in the mood to do this, otherwise I am completely ineffective!

On a bad day, what tends to happen is that I empty a wardrobe or chest of drawers, spread the contents around the room, look at it and feel total overwhelmed.

I really don’t understand where all the stuff comes from. Especially the junk! I don’t remember buying any junk. Why would I? Yet there it is!

The junk is easy to get rid of… but the rest of it…

I pick each item up in turn (eg; old receipt from that bad movie that we went to see and ended up laughing all the way through, the scarf that I bought that I really didn’t need on a lovely day out with my sister, the purse that went with a bag that I no longer have etc), and each item brings back a flood of memories and the de-cluttering nightmare begins.

Books are the worse. How can you get rid of books? I have what feels like a million books and can’t part with any of them.

So what’s the answer to the de-cluttering nightmare? After years of repeating the above scenario and getting nowhere. Here are my top tips that work for me.

1.  Don’t take on too much at once

I’ve tried to de-clutter an entire room, it didn’t work. I ended up closing the door and leaving the stuff laid out everywhere for days until I could face it again, and then just ended up putting it all back in the cupboards that it came out of!

Don’t even attempt a wardrobe or cupboard…

The first thing to do is to select a drawer or shelf. That’s it! Keep it simple and small.


2. Sort through the items quickly

Divide all the contents of that shelf/ drawer into 3 piles – 1. Keep   2.Give to charity   3. Throw away

Just to be clear what goes in each pile:

Keep – Can’t live without, you need it, look great in it, use it all the time..

Give to charity – You can’t remember buying it but it works, is in good condition, it just doesn’t fit you, the colour looks awful on you but would suit someone else..

Throw away – It doesn’t work, it’s beyond repair, parts of it are missing..


Make decisions quickly. If you have any indecision, put the item in the “Keep” pile. That’s a battle to fight another day.

Indecision leads to procrastination. Make a quick decision, then move on. Don’t be tempted to put all the items in the “Keep” pile! Be honest with yourself, then make a decision and stick to it.


3. Time yourself

Set the alarm clock on your phone or… and this works better for me… put on your favourite playlist… with the intention that by the time the alarm goes off or the last song has ended, the de-cluttering HAS TO BE FINISHED!

If you think it’s going to take you half an hour, that’s the time that you give yourself. If you think it’s going to take 8 songs. That’s it. That’s all you’ve got, you can’t take any more time. You HAVE TO GET THE SORTING FINISHED IN THIS TIME.


4. Tidy/ clean up after the task is finished

Before you put the “keep” items back in the drawer, give the drawer a quick clean and put away all the items neatly into some sort of order.

This helps to give you a sense of the job being completed and also gives you the motivation to repeat the process again with the other drawers. I mean you don’t want one tidy, organised drawer and the others to be in a mess do you?


5. Finish the job completely

This is probably the most important step of the process. Put all the items in the “throw away” pile in the bin. And I mean the bin outside! Then there’s no going back. Now, put your shoes on and take the “give to charity” pile to your local charity shop immediately.

If you can’t do this right at this moment (because it’s 10pm and the charity shop is closed – I want a good reason for not taking it right now) then put the bag near the door and do it at your earliest opportunity ie; tomorrow!


After years of trying and failing to de-clutter effectively, these are the tips that work for me.

Good luck with your de-cluttering. You’ll feel so much better once it’s done.


I’d love to hear what works for you.

You may also like


Emily@movingthroughmomhood 2 November, 2017 - 3:23 pm

I’m getting ready to do this because I need to make room for winter clothes and your first suggestion is really helpful, to not take on too much. I have 3 teenage boys clothes to go through and it seems overwhelming. Maybe I’ll just tackle one a week! Great tips!

Lucy 2 November, 2017 - 3:44 pm

If you’ve got a lot to do it can be overwhelming. Definitely do a bit at a time and timing yourself really does help. Give yourself an hour or two and then that’s it! Doing it this way makes me more productive. Good luck!

Jenn 2 November, 2017 - 3:27 pm

The throwaway pile IS the most important, total agree! No help if you drive around with it in your car for months (done it!)

Lucy 2 November, 2017 - 3:36 pm

Ha ha Jenn I’ve done that too! As long as it goes from the car to the charity shop and not back into the house!

Sarah Dean 2 November, 2017 - 3:39 pm

I’m so bad at number 5! My charity shop items always sit in a bag for AGES before I actually take them, It’s so silly.

Great tips – thanks for sharing! 🙂

Lisa 2 November, 2017 - 3:48 pm

You know I love all your posts and helpful tips Lucy! This list makes it so quick and easy to declutter, I am saving this for my next closet decluttering project!

Lucy 2 November, 2017 - 4:48 pm

That’s so nice to hear Lisa! Thank you. I hope the tips help when you declutter. Its the only method thats worked for me.

Lucy 2 November, 2017 - 4:33 pm

These are great tips! I recently decluttered and used a lot of these 💗

Lucy 2 November, 2017 - 4:47 pm

Its great to hear that they worked for you too! Ive failed at decluttering so many times, this method is the only one that works for me.

Marie 2 November, 2017 - 5:03 pm

My bedroom is in desperate need of decluttering! Will definitely keep these in mind!

Lucy 2 November, 2017 - 5:37 pm

It gets to a certain point when you think enough is enough and you just have to do something. Good luck!

Anisa 2 November, 2017 - 5:25 pm

So glad I read this because i need to delcutter my room and make room for winter clothes and for my baby too. Great tips! Getting better with completing tasks right away

Lucy 2 November, 2017 - 5:39 pm

Summer clothes definitely need to be put away now. Its gone so cold! Good luck with the declutter 🙂

Anissa 2 November, 2017 - 7:38 pm

Great tips I need to declutter just to clear my mind so that I can write. Junk is a distraction!

Lucy 3 November, 2017 - 8:31 am

Youre so right! When you’ve decluttered its asthough a weight has been lifted from your mind too!

Stephanie 3 November, 2017 - 2:46 am

I need to do this! Particularly my kids clothes. I need to make enough space for them to share 1 wardrobe SO I can move my toddler in there. Thanks!

Paulette 3 November, 2017 - 2:59 am

I have a problem with de cluttering I tend to feel bad about getting rid of it. This are great tips I will definitely income these tips.

Lucy 3 November, 2017 - 8:35 am

Think of it as passing on your unwanted items to someone else who needs them. Youre not getting “rid” of them, they just don’t have a purpose in your life anymore. Good luck!

Melissa 3 November, 2017 - 5:00 am

This is a very timely article. I just spent 2 hours sorting through my kids old clothes and toys- aiming to get them out of the house. Thanks for your tips…I’ll implement them as the work continues tomorrow!

Lucy 3 November, 2017 - 8:36 am

Sounds like you’ve got a big task! When you have such a lot to do, its easy to get overwhelmed by it all. Hope the tips help. Good luck!

Gaby 3 November, 2017 - 8:28 am

I can honestly say, I needed this post! Forget Spring cleaning, Autumn/Winter is when I seem to accumulate the most junk.. I also find that a decluttered home leads to a better mindset 🙂

Lucy 3 November, 2017 - 8:45 am

I totally agree! Getting your environment organised gives you room to think!

Tara 3 November, 2017 - 4:19 pm

i have almost monthly decluttering sprees! i cannot live in clutter – it gives me anxiety!

Kasia Olszewski 7 November, 2017 - 3:54 pm

I just moved 6 states away so decluttering was a must! I donated lots of books, clothes, shoes, and more and I have to admit that decluttering made me feel great! Your tips are a must for next time.

Joanne Taylor 28 December, 2018 - 10:18 am

Once Christmas is over I always get the decluttering bug. Getting rid of the junk and making a fresh start is so satisfying. These tips are really going to help.


Leave a Comment